It is such a privilege to be chosen as a bridesmaid for your friend’s or relative’s special day and you will likely be flooded with excitement and joy. But in order to show up as the best bridesmaid, you must understand the duties at hand. Below,we have listed the key roles for a bridesmaid to guide you;
Be Emotionally Supportive; Wedding Planning is most times stressful for the brides-to-be and therefore it is important to be there for her in the moments of tension and be as available as much as you’re able to. If you’re someone the bride trusts for advice,be that helping hand but don’t force your opinion on her. Advise and let her make the decision.
Communicate Honestly; Always take the time to understand what is expected. Sometimes it may call for a financial contribution and more of your time. Have honest conversations with the bride from day one for whatever your stand is, she will completely be understanding.
Help with Pre-Wedding Events; It is mainly a Bridal shower or any other parties you may agree to as a team. There could be other people taking the lead but you to as a bridesmaid should support by helping to plan and pay for as much as possible.
Attend the Rehearsals;As a bridesmaids,you’re expected to attend all the rehearsal events and if something prevents from attending,give a timely communication and make the effort to always catch up with what you missed.
Don’t Complain; The wedding day is such a hectic one for the couple,so avoid frustrating them further with your complaints. May be you don’t like your make up,your dress got an issue,deal directly with those concerned and please don’t burden the bride.
Be Part of the Team; It is important to join effort with all involved in the planning of the event.In many cases,you may not know each other and possible that personalities may clash,play nice and do not put up unnecessary drama.It is group effort to have a successful wedding for your dear one.
Help with after Wedding Errands; At the end of the event,always offer to help take back any items that need to or any help that the bride might need.
Conclusion;
Being the best bridesmaid is more than just a one day task, it is a role that starts way before the wedding,during the wedding and even after the wedding. You need to be ready for it otherwise,overwhelm and panic might come in.
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